It is a bitter-sweet occasion. He's growing up, but oh so well. Here are all the realizations that have come to me over the last few months as my younger brother creates his new life:
1. I am no longer an innocent. I now have wisdom and knowledge that I have gained through my own experiences. I need to remember to censor myself and let them figure things out on their own.
2. A little sister is so much fun! I love having Chelsea around. She has a great personality and I think we get along well. I'm sure she's tired of all my unsolicited advise by now, but now I have someone to tell it to!
3. Besides usual sibling stuff, Dennis and I never really had a close relationship while we were growing up. There's 4 years difference and we never shared friends. And of course, what older sibling lets their younger one hang out with them? Certainly not I! Now I'm taking the opportunity to cultivate a relationship with him. But to be honest, sometimes I just focus on Chelsea! I still have a lot to learn.
4. The world is changing. Fast. 6 years ago when Miles and I were starting out, cost of living was different, styles were different. What used to be luxuries have now become necessities. I don't want to imagine how much will change in the next 5 years. I like 'the good ol' days'.
5. Family is so important to me. I love to meet with my family every month at games night. Catch up with some light chat and poke fun at each other as we compete in board games, card games or video games. I love that we can all spend time together.
6. I love my brother, I am so proud of him. And I'm glad he chose Chelsea to be his wife and to join our ever growing family.
Good luck, Dennis and Chelsea, only 10 more days left! Thanks for letting me be a part of it.
